What gives a fool?

"I like you not because you are Pretty"
"but it is because of who you are"

"Today we are here to witness a confession from a boy to a girl.
God will be our witness of tonight.
The boy has already confessed, what about the girl?"

"..."

"Will you be my girlfriend?"

"..."
"..."
"..."
"... Give me sometime"

The crowd goes "still got chance!"

A fool is born from lovestruck. See how true is that?
This type of confession is pretty much classical, then again, people should use it when they really MEAN IT.

Let me explain,
"I like you not because you are Pretty"
"but it is because of who you are"
(You don't even know her.
You have only chat with her a few times.
No doubt she is pretty but still, have you even gone out with her?
How can you claim that you like her because of who she is when you didn't even take time to get to know her)

"Today we are here to witness a confession from a boy to a girl.
God will be our witness of tonight.
The boy has already confessed, what about the girl?"
(A joker came trying to stir things up after an awkward silence)

"..."
(Silence from the girl)

"Will you be my girlfriend?"
(Ta-daa confession)

"..."
"..."
"..."
"... Give me sometime"
(10 minutes of awkward silence from the girl. It's very obvious that the answer is NO!
If she really likes you there won't be those silence moments where she look at her friends and shake her head.)

Kudos to the drunken boy. He made himself a man on that night.
It's not easy to just confess to a girl in public and then got obvious rejection.

There is always a fine line between love and crush.
Everyone one of us may have our own definition for the two words.

"Love is an emotion of strong affection and personal attachment."
"A crush is that first attraction you have towards another person. As you get to know a person a friendship may develop or it could turn to feelings of love but there's no guarantee."

For this case, I would say a crush.
The word "Love" is losing its value.
It's pretty common for people nowadays to just simply say "I love you".
Then break up some day later because of some minor misunderstanding or because you so called "don't like her/his attitude".
This happened because we don't understand our partner, we are not even up to the point to actually love them.

This "love" itself is not one sided thing.
It requires mutual understanding from both sides.
You may love someone but that person may not, one-sided we say.
When we know it's the time, we should withdraw.
You may think being persistent will change it.
You may try, but it won't turn out like in the movies.
We just gotta face with the reality.

I believe if you are not meant to belong with one another, there's no point continuing.
Realize this before a relationship goes deeper.
Peeps, don't be demotivated by this after spending money and time on someone.
You may think it is a sad fact, but do note that we are bounded by karmic relation.
People of similar karma will get attracted to one another. (Another point of my belief.)

My point is to tell you guys (readers) to understand your partner.
Take relationship seriously.
Don't just flirt here and there without knowing your partner properly.
You could be attracted by one just because of physical appearance, but do note that you have to understand your partner before it goes deeper.
Breaking up is common, it's a process of understanding your partner. :)

Cheers;